Changing is a long journey, is a trip to our deeper fears, a long road full of failures were success is warranty to only those who never give up, the ones who believe a great reward is waiting for them at the end of the road.
Is not easy to take the decision to change, most people think they don’t need to change anything in their life, effectively some people don’t, some people actually are very happy with their life, they have got whatever they wanted, their dreams have came true; those are a few that has already gone through their journey of change and improvement, challenged their selves to the maximum, fighting for everything that they wanted to get and for sure now they are living the life they always wanted. From my point of view the rest of the people fall into three groups, the first one is the people who think they don’t need to change anything in their life, the second one consist of people who don’t want to change their life and the third one is the people who want to change cause have realized their life can be better than actually is.
The people who think they don’t need to change their life and the people who don’t want to change their life usually are people dominated by fear, some people is afraid of changing cause their point of view is ruled by the society where they are immersed, a society that usually tell them that the way of changing and self development is for weird people or losers, is people that looks usually happy but inside their fear rules their life, they grew up with the thought that you have to resign to be in the position that life choose for you, they always avoid to get involved in big quests and prefer to look happy by not taking risks; fear control their life completely, fear of what others could say about them, fear of themselves, fear of losing battles. These people go proudly in the world saying that they don’t need to change their life, they think they are always right, but their life isn’t great, they resign to what life can give them, they don’t fight, their days are always the same, they spend their life immerse in their own reality of laziness, mediocrity, pride and arrogance, they prefer to have something in their hands than releasing what they have in search for something bigger. I hope my dear reader you don’t fall in this category.
Sometimes looks easier to not do anything, change requires energy, movement, pain, suffering, changing requires to move the whole structure of the universe, breaking the rules of nature. Sometimes is better to choose not to change, especially when there is so many people around you willing that you don’t change, willing that you don’t grow up in life as they cannot do it, they don’t like change and don’t want anything around to change, remember they are afraid of change, so they will always try hard to keep you as you are cause for them finding your own way make them remember the feelings that change could bring to them, pain, suffering, etc, they never see what is at the end of the road, which reward is waiting for them and for you, they only see what they are made to see and stick to that.
But how do you actually start to change? I think if you have already recognized that you need to change something in your life you have taken a big step into a new world, a new life of discovery and infinite possibilities. Movement is the greatest engine of change, if you have move what is inside you, if you have started to question yourself, your life, your achievements, your current state then you are in the way to change; now turn on that engine of change and start to move!, doing something is the greatest way to start to change, anything!. Read a book, go out of your house, buy new clothes, talk to people, whatever! Don’t stick to your life as it is, start to become the owner of your life!, to own your own life, your own reality, be the owner of your happiness is the greatest think that can happen! Never is too late to start a new life, to fight for your dreams, to become better, if you just took the decision of changing anything in your life, start to look inside you what is wrong, what need to be change but most important start to act!
When you start to move you start to compromise yourself to something, you start to become responsible of what you do. I started this blog as a way to move, to compromise myself to be better every single day of my life, to move others life by moving my life, this blog already brought me responsibility to write, challenge to become a good writer, impulse to read about different aspects all related to personal growth and also live more, get more expertise in life, I am linked to your growth know, I am challenged to convince you that I can guide you; this is a very big challenge for me. When you start to move, movement start to bring you the tools to keep moving, the more you move the more you want to keep moving, going further. If you have taken the decision to move just keep moving, go with the flow and your way in life will be revealed.
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